Lets talk about this so called fired up question pertaining to minds of couples when it comes to marriage esp in India.
Well, in my opinion parents are and should be first priority in any1's life but for this reason that someone should not suppress their feelings and make sacrifices for their whole life. I understand they might face circumstances when they have to face such situations but I would rather suggest that listen to what your heart says not what your friends or someone else. Sometimes we think we are making wrong decision and the things we are doing can lead us into deep pit and may be in future spoil the name of family, when some unknown neighbor or some relative will taunt that aapke bete/beti ne acha nahi kiya..samaaj ki zra bhi fikar nahi thi unhe..but my point is that yeh sab relative, neighbor tab kaha hotey hai when u get success..when u prove urself..i've seen a lot instances like this and now really believe in these song's lyrics..Kuch to log kahenge..logo ka kaam hai kehna..chodo bekaar ki baaton ko..kahin beet na jaaye raina..
I know I may sound stupid to many readers who might have such patience to read my posts, but this is what I feel is on my mind and we should never fear of what other people will say, just do what your heart says..we Indians are confused between shackles of culture, sacrifices of parents, samaaj when it comes to go beyond your boundaries..but i have realised one thing after such a long time that we should have tempo to keep a balance between heart and mind, decide the priorities of life and what we want to do..For some persons i've seen their career is first priority, for some money matters but for some guys like me their way to spend life with their perfect life partner is the ultimate priority. People takes tension, are in frustration due to their office or professional life, but these are all mundane things and should not be given a second thought and you must leave them out of your mind as soon as you leave the office.
To summarize, I would again say that parents are the main priority. You can get a lot better partners in your life but you won't get you parents. Never ever go against their wish, but do tell them what's on your mind..aakhir kaar wo bhi hum logo ki tarah insaan hai..aur parents hote hi apni baat manwaane ke liye hain.!!
Well, in my opinion parents are and should be first priority in any1's life but for this reason that someone should not suppress their feelings and make sacrifices for their whole life. I understand they might face circumstances when they have to face such situations but I would rather suggest that listen to what your heart says not what your friends or someone else. Sometimes we think we are making wrong decision and the things we are doing can lead us into deep pit and may be in future spoil the name of family, when some unknown neighbor or some relative will taunt that aapke bete/beti ne acha nahi kiya..samaaj ki zra bhi fikar nahi thi unhe..but my point is that yeh sab relative, neighbor tab kaha hotey hai when u get success..when u prove urself..i've seen a lot instances like this and now really believe in these song's lyrics..Kuch to log kahenge..logo ka kaam hai kehna..chodo bekaar ki baaton ko..kahin beet na jaaye raina..
I know I may sound stupid to many readers who might have such patience to read my posts, but this is what I feel is on my mind and we should never fear of what other people will say, just do what your heart says..we Indians are confused between shackles of culture, sacrifices of parents, samaaj when it comes to go beyond your boundaries..but i have realised one thing after such a long time that we should have tempo to keep a balance between heart and mind, decide the priorities of life and what we want to do..For some persons i've seen their career is first priority, for some money matters but for some guys like me their way to spend life with their perfect life partner is the ultimate priority. People takes tension, are in frustration due to their office or professional life, but these are all mundane things and should not be given a second thought and you must leave them out of your mind as soon as you leave the office.
To summarize, I would again say that parents are the main priority. You can get a lot better partners in your life but you won't get you parents. Never ever go against their wish, but do tell them what's on your mind..aakhir kaar wo bhi hum logo ki tarah insaan hai..aur parents hote hi apni baat manwaane ke liye hain.!!
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