Do we know that we love each other!!

This is something which is on my mind and don't know what striked my mind that I started blogging at 3:45 in the morning.
We love each other when:

• We are best'est friends or say very close friends(know each n every secrets, even passwords)
• We look at relationships quiet seriously
• We fight more than we love
• We share stories, facebook comments, some cool pictures, endless chats and sweet memories
• We know just by hearing the sound that s/he is not fine..kuch to gadbad hai..
• We feel it as the ending dialogue of my Fav movie "A Walk to Remember" says "LOVE IS LIKE A WIND, YOU CANNOT SEE IT, BUT YOU CAN FEEL IT"
• We know we are not going to get together but still respect's the other person's decision and just pretend that we are normal human beings
• We see a good morning message on mobile saying, Hey wake up..you need to go somwhere today.
• We fight with each other, don't talk for a long time and still asks sorry from each other just to maintain this ship of relation
• We care for the other person
• OHHHHHHHHHH!!!! there are endless reasons and I guess I can cover atleast 3-4 pages here but will halt as I know no one has patience to read the looooong stories and when esp written by Kapil

But my point is or may be my personal li'll experience makes me think that when you are in love with some person, you get to know about them even more than they know about them and you catch those small tears in eyes of your partner knowingly or unknowingly hiding this secret with you that you never wanted to disclose it the first hand. OMG, I just wrote that all this philosophy and now I am boasting myself as some Guru, but the fact is I am still old stupid, Idiot and Immature Kapil who really don't know the meaning of love or takes some decision at the first glance, never thinking of the future or its end results..Nevertheless, I know and I truly understand now, atleast now at this stage of why people says...Ye ishq nahi asan bus itna samaz lijiye ..ek aag ka dariya hai aur doob k jana hai