Though, in Indian tradition it is widely believed that “marriages are
made in heaven”. But it is only through human intervention that the two
families are introduced to each other.
The questions pertaining in mind of parents are:
1. Ladke/ladki ki caste kya hai?
2. Unki family kaisi hai?
3. Pandit ji mere bete/beti ki shaadi kab hogi?
4. Meri Beti ki shaadi me itna delay kyun ho rha hai?
5. Will I have a love or arranged marriage?
6. Kisi extra marital affair ka chance hai kya?
7. Is there a second marriage in my life?
8. blah blah blah..pandi ji yeh..pandit ji wo..are agar saare answers pandit ji ke paas rehte to aaj wo yeh business na krte.kahi bahar US UK me settled hotey..10-15 bmw hoti..bechare khud apne vivahik jiwan se trast hai wo aur chale dusro ka future batane !! (SEE THE IRONY)
Well I believe that no matter what at some point in your life you find someone and you say that YES s/he is the one. You might consider here that it may be a infatuation or some so called crush..but i've seen people who are loyal and stick to their partners for full life..You then start talking to them, believe that one day you will say you feelings to them, but in majority of the cases it is plain NO, in some cases it is yes(may be yes may be no...girl or boy either of them are confused), third case its YES and they live their life happily ever..
My point here is that we should follow our customs, tradition but to the extent to which we think they make sense..like yes we should be loyal to our partners for whole life..I can remember here the 7 VOWS which a dulha dulhan takes at the time of marriage..we should follow all that, rather than ke YAAR TUM ALAG DHARAM SE HO...MERE PARENTS KYA BOLENGE..TUMHARI FAMILY ACHI NAHI HAI...blah blah(ps.. these are not my personal experiences, just the small thoughts)
Almost no one is foolish enough to imagine that he automatically deserves great success in any field of activity; yet almost everyone believes that he automatically deserves success in marriage. Discover how to deepen your relationships and become more receptive to one another. The accuracy and insight found in our reports will amaze you.
Marriage is a major decision in the life of a person. In western countries Marriage is a connection of two persons of opposite sex to live together with or without getting married properly and carry up a family, a world of their own. A successful marriage life depends on two things: finding the right person and being the right person.
In India, Marriage is considered as the most sacred occasion in one’s life. Marriage brings a sense of maturity, responsibility and completeness of life. Marriage contributes towards the enhancement of social status of a person. In Hindu customs it is believed that a person repays his/her forefathers through their child, and marriage is the first step in that. The parents make all possible efforts in the selection of a right partner for their son/daughter to ensure that their child is happily married ever after. A happy marriage has in it all the pleasures of friendships, all the enjoyment of sense and reason – and indeed all the sweets of life.
The questions pertaining in mind of parents are:
1. Ladke/ladki ki caste kya hai?
2. Unki family kaisi hai?
3. Pandit ji mere bete/beti ki shaadi kab hogi?
4. Meri Beti ki shaadi me itna delay kyun ho rha hai?
5. Will I have a love or arranged marriage?
6. Kisi extra marital affair ka chance hai kya?
7. Is there a second marriage in my life?
8. blah blah blah..pandi ji yeh..pandit ji wo..are agar saare answers pandit ji ke paas rehte to aaj wo yeh business na krte.kahi bahar US UK me settled hotey..10-15 bmw hoti..bechare khud apne vivahik jiwan se trast hai wo aur chale dusro ka future batane !! (SEE THE IRONY)
Well I believe that no matter what at some point in your life you find someone and you say that YES s/he is the one. You might consider here that it may be a infatuation or some so called crush..but i've seen people who are loyal and stick to their partners for full life..You then start talking to them, believe that one day you will say you feelings to them, but in majority of the cases it is plain NO, in some cases it is yes(may be yes may be no...girl or boy either of them are confused), third case its YES and they live their life happily ever..
My point here is that we should follow our customs, tradition but to the extent to which we think they make sense..like yes we should be loyal to our partners for whole life..I can remember here the 7 VOWS which a dulha dulhan takes at the time of marriage..we should follow all that, rather than ke YAAR TUM ALAG DHARAM SE HO...MERE PARENTS KYA BOLENGE..TUMHARI FAMILY ACHI NAHI HAI...blah blah(ps.. these are not my personal experiences, just the small thoughts)
Almost no one is foolish enough to imagine that he automatically deserves great success in any field of activity; yet almost everyone believes that he automatically deserves success in marriage. Discover how to deepen your relationships and become more receptive to one another. The accuracy and insight found in our reports will amaze you.
Marriage is a major decision in the life of a person. In western countries Marriage is a connection of two persons of opposite sex to live together with or without getting married properly and carry up a family, a world of their own. A successful marriage life depends on two things: finding the right person and being the right person.
In India, Marriage is considered as the most sacred occasion in one’s life. Marriage brings a sense of maturity, responsibility and completeness of life. Marriage contributes towards the enhancement of social status of a person. In Hindu customs it is believed that a person repays his/her forefathers through their child, and marriage is the first step in that. The parents make all possible efforts in the selection of a right partner for their son/daughter to ensure that their child is happily married ever after. A happy marriage has in it all the pleasures of friendships, all the enjoyment of sense and reason – and indeed all the sweets of life.
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