Are marriages really made in Heaven? Are we destined to meet our soul partner? Does Love really happens? Why is that they all say you are bound to marry a bride or groom what we will choose for you?
These are some of the many questions which are on my mind right now and I am at-least not confused here and wanted to express my opinion on system of arranged marriages in Indian culture and caste barriers which forces young generation to suppress their feelings and go with the parent's wish.
May be I feel like I am one of the victim of it but wanted to confess the things which are all around me these days.
Whether I am sad or I am Happy, only God knows this.
So lets start the main discussion:
1. Sometimes it is you
2. Most of the times are your parents
An article came out last year about divorce increasing in India partly due to the fact that Indian women are working now. They can afford to not rely on having their husbands provide for them. There are married men and women in India who are miserable and ONLY stay married because of FAMILY obligations and tradiTion. I would rather be alone and at peace than married and miserable. Good luck people.
It's just the decision which you need to take whether your loved ones are near you or far away from other.If both of you love each other than parents will accept you as the old Indian phrase "JAB MIYA BIWI RAAZI, TO KYA KAREGA KAAZI''
So lets start the main discussion:
1. Sometimes it is you
2. Most of the times are your parents
An article came out last year about divorce increasing in India partly due to the fact that Indian women are working now. They can afford to not rely on having their husbands provide for them. There are married men and women in India who are miserable and ONLY stay married because of FAMILY obligations and tradiTion. I would rather be alone and at peace than married and miserable. Good luck people.
It's just the decision which you need to take whether your loved ones are near you or far away from other.If both of you love each other than parents will accept you as the old Indian phrase "JAB MIYA BIWI RAAZI, TO KYA KAREGA KAAZI''
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