Sunday, February 5, 2012

LOVE vs ARRANGED MARRIAGE--My Questions

  • Is it a marriage b/w two people or marriage between families or kundlis?
  • We goto mandir, masjid, church, gurudwara..Believe in other Gods..Then why they follow their own religion in arranged marriage?
  • Is Love an important aspect before marriage or after marriage. What will you say..Do you have the right to love someone before marriage knowing the fact that you cannot go long?
  • Where do feel someone will be more happy, get more freedom--In Arranged marriage or Love marriage?
  • Is it always like your wishes are nothing in front of your parents?
  • Marriage is done between two people not between parents so whom do you think has the right to take decision?
  • Which part do you think covers more expectations--Arranged or Love?
  • Doing sacrifices really means that it is a True Love?
  • Is breeding livestock is the sole purpose of any marriage?
  • Why social discrimination is still prevalent in India when it comes to Arranged or Love Marriage?
  • Should you develop the sense of belonging, respect and trust for your partner before or after marriage?
  • If love marriage don't work, you can easily blame urself or ur partner..But what if your arranged marriage doesnot work..Will you complain this to your parents or will just compromise it and live life as hell in a cage just thinking it was or is my destiny?
  • Is it like arranged marriages have more success rate, we should go with this trend like people run after Iphone these days?
  • Is it perfectly fine with meeting someone whom parents choose when you have not choose anyone by yourself. But if you choose someone by yourself, you should discuss with your parents before giving up. I can understand, sometimes, not every parents will agree to it but we all know that no parents wish to spoil their own children's lives?
  • Is everything done for just the sake of society or parents nose?
  • Can love happen twice?
  • I have just question for those people who says arrange marriage are good because their parents are there even in ny fight & love marriage is unsuccessful because both partner has to face more worst situations and having no support from anyone.--

    There are many arrange marriages where both partner has to face worst situation & even they get their parents support too.But for what..finally that support is given to satisfy each ego & which result into rate of divorce...And if people says that arrange marriage are more successful then this is also the fact that in INDIA the rates of divorce are getting increased too..Is this only the support that every body get in arrange marriage?Then somebody can still decrease rate of divorces???????
  • Another point that someone mention that love marriages are unsuccessful because men's nature always get change after marriage.That's true.But is it not possible that after 3-4 yrs of success of arrange marriage even those men can also change any point of the time & make a life more worst like a hell?
  • Is it you or ur society or ego of your parents?
  • Are marriages all about Lust, Physical attraction or beauty of the other person?
  • If the girl/boy is good coming from good family background irrespective of his/her caste can people then accept each other. Can we fight against unfaithfulness in love relationships?
     

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